A couple of days ago I met one of my Ugandan colleagues for lunch at a local restaurant. It was a slightly more upper-class local restaurant, you pay a little extra, but you also have the opportunity of eating a range of meat dishes – certainly
things that are sought-after, and you can order fresh juice!

Let me assure you the restaurant wasn’t this ‘posh’, lol, just wanted a picture to reflect going out for a meal
There were two main purposes of this meeting:
- For me to catch up with this colleague: I had recently increased her responsibility and I wanted to see how she was going, check-in on relations with other staff members (can’t believe I am writing a plural now – yes we are growing!); attempt to mentor her a little; and
- To give her advise on her research for her Diploma course, which she wanted to discuss with me.
We had a lovely chat about many things, and a fruitful research discussion. After our meal the waitress brought over the bill. It sat in the middle of the
table, to the side, for another hour or so as we continued to talk about schools, reading test results, research, etc. Then suddenly my colleague jumps up and says: “Spencer, have I ever bought you lunch? I am paying today”; and briskly walks to the counter. I shout back some lame attempt at a refusal: “No, it’s ok,” but it is quickly drowned by her insistence.
My employee here bought me lunch. She flipping bought me lunch!
This may not seem like a big deal. But let me just tell you, that this single event is EARTH-SHATTERING!
This is quite symbolic and says so much! Here’s a few things I took from this incident:
- She is not expectant. She doesn’t expect things from me and doesn’t have a feeling of entitlement. (I could possibly write this line 10 times to try to explain the significance of this one single point, but let me just tell you – it’s a big ‘en).
- She is generous.
- She is humble
- She is my friend and values our friendship.
I haven’t written her name, but those of you who know me well, and have followed the work I am doing, could possibly guess who it was.
I am deeply honoured and humbled to work alongside her and blessed to have her alongside me in this valuable work we are doing in schools.
Note: The day before I met someone else for lunch. This particular lady was a westerner, the boss of an international NGO which is planning on starting a primary school here. She requested that we meet to ask my advise about the local education system. We met at a western restaurant in town and we chatted for a few hours. When it came time for the bill, we split it. I think the events of the following day made it so much more powerful and significant for me.
So note for the future: You want to impress me, shout me lunch 🙂
Jody



My incredible colleague, Teacher Catherine, travelled out of town to the local government primary teacher’s college this afternoon to continue with our early reading and writing programme which we are piloting with year one student teachers. Unfortunately she met the students slashing the compound. Afternoon lessons were abruptly suspended because the college is receiving visitors tomorrow. I just rang the head of English department at the college to share my concerns and enquired about these visitors. Who are these important visitors that they would suspend lessons for? A big NGO. Makes sense. Although we are an NGO, we are not funding the college, we are instead providing teaching and knowledge to the students (not how NGOs normally work here). A visit by a big NGO brings the hope of funding and perks; and of course cut grass could make that reality so much closer…


